There comes a point where the physical attraction no longer matters, and it's your partner's personality that becomes the most important thing in a relationship. So what if they haven't retained their youthful figure... does that mean their partner can no longer find them attractive? People change, gravity takes over eventually, that physical attraction does not have to fade.
a mercy fuck and having sex with someone because you love them, inspite of their appearance -- or perhaps not even noticing their appearance are two totally different things. The mercy fuck is wrong... but it's possible-- absolutely possible to have the latter.
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Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.
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