hossified

i'll admit at times it's nagging but I get the same repsonse whether I nag, or ask with the sugar and gumdrops approach.....so why put in the time and effort to be all nice when I get overeaction either way???? Cripes.....it's simple hygenics, clean up after you are done!!!!!!!
i don't get why that is so hard to understand?

...as far as the mine and hers....we aren't married, so there is definite division. Again, if I'm working my tail off to pay for this tv, and she isn't doing a thing...than yes it is mine. Same goes for her, she has her own computer and I don't go near it. Is there no transition between living together and being married for 50 years. When I'm ready to have joint accounts and joint ownership, than I will get married......but until she picks up after herself and shares in the daily chores (closer to 50-50 versus the current 90-10)....there ain't gonna be no wedding!