remember that vanilla sex can be associated with the place as well as the act. I know you go to hotels but instead call her during the day (if you can) and tell her that she has to meet you at a hotel. Then be there when she gets there and dont' say hello or anything, just start telling her what to do. Or do it randomly. When the kid is out of town and she is cooking dinner have her stop and start dancing for you. I think its important for you both to start thinking sexually on a daily basis. Flirt with her. Send her saucy texts or tell her things like that on the phone when you call. Just keep her thinking about it and it can't go wrong.
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