the way I see it (of course)...is not necessarily nagging. I've asked her super politely at times to put her stuff away and she still reacts back very stongly instead of just doing it. And as per your suggestion of just putting them away myself....that's what I usually end up doing, but I'm not a maid....because on top of that I take the garbage out, I vacuum the place, I pick up her clothes and put them away......that's the part the bothers me. I can only clean up after her for so long until I think "what a sec, I can manage to clean up after myself, so why can't she?"
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