Well I lived with my wife 6 months after we met because she became pregnant after two months of meeting. So I know what your going through, we are still learning to live together after 4 years, but we are married now and have learned there is a an equal amount of work that needs to be done. We both know that if something is dirty we just do it and just don't expect the other to have to do it. But we also talk about the inequalities, because I have a tendenticy to fall off the cleaning horse but she will usually let me know about in a nice conversational way. You both just have to talk about what problems you have and what are some ways to solve them, it will help greatly. Take her out to eat so that you can have a little fun and at the same time talk about your relationship over dinner; it helps to have a comfortable atmosphere around you especially if she doesn't stay around to talk about the tough things in the relationship. It would be hard for her to leave a nice restaurant so try this option if you can't think of anything better to do. Good Luck.
