So long as you can stay home and watch a movie WITHOUT feeling the need for a drink. Or you can have a thought for your x-girl without needing a drink than I'd say you're fine.
Personally I don't like how I feel when I get much alcohol in my system when we're out socializing. A few bottles and I begin to feel drowsy and lethargic. When I'm out socializing I love getting out and dancings doing karaoke and chatting up people. I'm active - alcohol slows me down so when I do have a few drinks it's mostly when I'm home alone or with hubby. I like having a hot bath and then a couple glasses of wine, or something. I relax, watch a movie, and then once it's started to wear off I go to bed. It's more a way for me to wind down and relax than anything. I also rarely have anything to drink when my daughter is around - unless she's asleep. I like to be at the top of my game and alcohol hampers that so it's out most of the time.
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