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My boyfriend has repeatedly mentioned that he finds light-haired women more attractive than dark-haired ones as a rule. I have darker hair, so I can relate to your concerns. But your boyfriend is with you for a reason, right? If he didn't find you attractive he'd go find someone else. I know it can be hard, but I think you really need to accept that he thinks you're sexy and beautiful (I'm assuming that your sex life is working okay) and that even if he didn't think so, you still are those things. It sounds like you need to let him know how you're feeling about it and hopefully the two of you can work out a compromise. He probably will never give up the porn so don't expect that, but perhaps he can do it in a way that hurts your feelings a little less.
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