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n my b/f and I first started dating about a year ago he had mentioned that my body was not what he was attracted to.
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Statements like that make my blood boil, when I hear boys make them (And pardon me while I take my bra off and burn it and become one of those hated feminists.) No MAN would ever EVER disrespect a woman he is supposed to care about by saying that.
OK. now that that is out of my sytem...
The only opinion that should matter to you is what you think... If you are satisfied with what you look like then that should be good enough... for him... for anyone...
There's a song that just came up on my playlist -- seems to be appropriate...
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I am beautiful no matter what they say
Words can't bring me down
I am beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can't bring me down
So don't you bring me down today
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Sing that to yourself every day...
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Now, there's nothing wrong with a man looking at porn, but if that's all he's doing, and he's picking the porn over you, which you haven't said... but you are implying you are not always his first choice, he's got a problem.
Addiction to sex, is joked about a lot, but it is an addiction, and pornography being so readily available makes it tough for a person to give up.
Do you look at porn with him? Adding it in to your sex life? Have you suggested it? What's he said when you talked to him about how you are feeling. (You don't want to break up with him because you've been with him a year, you surely better be able to talk to him about how you are feeling.
