If it is not boring, as you say, he may enjoy the surprises you have sprung on him in the past, and is looking forward to more. I would celebrate that he can ask, rather than worry. And definitely surprise him!
Then, the next time you are chatting, ask him if he has a surprise in store for you! I think this could be a lot of fun!
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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