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		 If it is not boring, as you say, he may enjoy the surprises you have sprung on him in the past, and is looking forward to more.  I would celebrate that he can ask, rather than worry.  And definitely surprise him! 
 
Then, the next time you are chatting, ask him if he has a surprise in store for you!  I think this could be a lot of fun! 
		
		
		
		
		
			
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				If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god 
 
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
			 
		
		
		
		
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