At risk of sounding brash, don't let the girl tie you down. If it's gonna happen, it'll happen. If it's worth the effort, you'll find yourself (and her) making the effort. Or moving with you, as you seem afraid to say, but who knows what happens in three months?
Be a bit selfish and do what's best for you, not for her or for you (the plural you, the relationship), or for your parents or your cat. It'll work out. Take the leap and see where it takes you. Seize these opportunities while you don't have too many roots out there to keep you in place.
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