So, an interesting thing happened this morning...
We were just going through that "alarm goes off, snooze for a while, alarm goes off, repeat" sleepy haze, and we had been sleeping spooning with her back to my chest. She rolled on her back, and a few moments later, started rubbing her clitoris under the sheets.
Despite my sleepy state, I did notice this and wasn't sure what to do. At other times she's just done that to scratch and would get annoyed if I jumped to a conclusion otherwise. So I decided to hold on for bit.
After a minute or so passed, it was clear she wasn't scratching a regular itch
. So I slide my hand down and started rubbing with her. She reacted positively, and let me continue in her semi-awake state. However, she clearly became more and more awake as this continued.
So I thought I'd take the approach suggested here of not pressuring her for anything, and just continued to focus on pleasuring her as she wanted. As she became more into it, she asked me to start talking dirty to her. As a good husband, I - of course - had to comply
. This did allow her to come to a climax soon thereafter.
After she had orgasmed, she told me she had been just dreaming about performing oral sex on me and was very turned on due to my erection pressing into her back. Seems that's what got the whole thing started. Of course, by then we were both going to be late, so we got about our day. But I wasn't sure who was more happy: her from the orgasm or me from that whole experience.
Not sure how this fits into the whole discussion we've been having. Should I use this event as a stepping-stone into this whole area of sex, or just leave well alone?
Thanks