I'm a hetero male, it's been like 5 years since anyone has directly hit on me(the first and only time so far, but I'm young, 20 yrs old), but I've had numerous occations from every type of person slip into the conversation that I'm attractive. Guys, girls, people 20+ yrs older than me...
I can't figure it out, I'm not sure if my sexuality is so ambiguous so that both types think I'm the opposite of their's, or that people are just too afraid to approach me ..I do usually have a serious visage, people have thought I was depressed or mad at times when I was neither. Or if I just seem uninterested to everyone as I tend to be a private person and find it hard to express my emotions.
It's kinda funny too since I tend to be really empathic but when it comes to having to do with others having feelings for me I 2nd guess my instincts too much.
Live and learn though, I'm sure Ill get the hang of it soon.
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