Go to a therapist now. Tell your wife that it is very important to you that this get worked out. Make her understand what her lack of lust is doing to you and to the relationship.
I have a friend who hasn't been divorced very long, and your problem was his exactly. His wife wasn't interested. She never initiated sex. She never wanted to try something new. Sex, she could take it or leave it. He said he felt like he was living with a roomate with tits. No passion. No romance. No lust.
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