Quote:
|
Originally Posted by Killconey
While I will admit that I've had thoughts like this before, I think that this line of thought could definitely lead to some problems. Those girls who spend their time writing to their future husbands are so focused on him as a concept that they probably won't even notice when the person walks in the room. If you aren't actively pursuing your destiny, it's a lot harder for her to marry you.
|
I do understand where you're coming from; however I don't think that I do it often enough (to merit concern), probably only once a month if that, and it doesn't even last for more than a minute..
As long as one doesn't harp on the thought or let it control him, it's not going to lead to perverse behavior.