I apologize if these seems way off base, but the thought just occurred to me...
Perhaps, because she hasn't had an orgasm from actual intercourse, she's disappointed in this thing she had built up in her mind.
Maybe try to step back, and do all of the things you two did before you got married. See if she's interested in that, and not intercourse.
Also, maybe get a book, or find a website (I'm sure the lovely people here would have some suggestions for you) that can help you two find positions that are more stimulating for her.
Also, I really think this hormonal/birth control issue needs looking into.
just my two cents...
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