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Old 02-15-2005, 01:38 PM   #12 (permalink)
maleficent
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've tried many different things during sex to get her interested but esentially she's waiting for the first opportunity for me to finish for her to say that's it. She will then claim that she has already received enough fulfilment through what has happened and doesn't need to climax for any more fulfilment, something which very much confuses me. If I press the issue she will get mad.
Not all women need to have orgasms -- it's not the finish that's important it's the closeness and the intimacy of the during that is what's important. It's not always easy to put into words...

So it seems that the marriage was the major change (don't rule out the hormones from birth control), What was her living situation before you both got married and moved in together? Did she live alone? with family? Sometimes living with someone, with all their quirks, can put a damper on sexual feelings, and they may not even realize it...
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