maleficent

Statistics are just that -- statistics, and depending on who is offering up those statistics is the result you will get. You think that Durex would talk to people who don't have sex frequently, they are a condom manufacturer, they are going to be talking to their customer base. Don't use that as a base as to how much sex you think you should be having. It's up to the individuals to decide what is right for them

Since you've got no sexual history with her, or with anyone, it could be a manner of sexual incomatibility. BUT, you've also both only been sexually active for a year, there's still a lot of growing and learning to do, if you are both willing to do it. Start slow, just some playing and teasing maybe, not everything has to end in intercourse, until she's ready for it.

Does she ever masturbate? How comfortable is she with her body and her sexuality? Does she know what her turn ons are and has she communicated them to you? Ever watch porn, read each other erotica.

The mind is the bodiest best sexual organ, find some good erotica and read to her -- not having sex as the objective, but maybe to find out what turns her on.

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