Rinndalir

I have been in this situation before and absolutely would not go back, even if it were my wife. It usually relates to some kind of abuse in the past though sometimes not, with me the girl had been abused at a young age and as a result associated sex with that. Every once in awhile she would let go and enjoy herself, but mostly it was either no sex or emotionless sex just to make me happy. Instead of confronting her issues and dealing with them she ignored them and later on started popping pills.

There were other things but I basically left her because of that, the sex. Normal girls like sex, and when they don't there's a problem, and when they won't deal with those issues then to me that's a deal-breaker. I know and have dated girls that had the strict religious upbringing, and normally they figure out that hey, sex isn't this evil thing that I've been taught it was, its not only normal but a very healthy and fulfilling part of life. But if she couldn't accept that and never changed, then yes I'd be outta there.