I used to go to drag shows a lot with a group of female friends during my first few years in college. I was the only straight guy they could get to go with them, and it worked out very well for me because: 1. I like to dance, and 2. I had between five and 10 ladies to dance with all night. I'd get hit on by guys fairly often, and it really didn't bother me. If anything, I always saw it as a compliment and was flattered. (Aside from the fact that I would be a complete fucking moron to go to a drag show thinking there was no way I would get hit on by anyone.)
I don't go to the drag shows anymore, but I still get hit on from time to time. I guess it doesn't bother me because in my opinion there is no reason it should. I'm straight, and I know that. If someone else thinks otherwise, that's fine with me. If someone finds me attractive/interesting enough to come and say something about it that's pretty damn cool in my book, regardless of what they've got between their legs. It doesn't matter if I get hit on by a guy or a girl, because the answer is going to be the same: "I'm very flattered, but I have a girlfriend." And there's no one in this world, male or female, that I'd give her up for.
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I've got the love of my life and a job that I enjoy most of the time. Life is good.
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