Been hit on by gay men on occasion. Especially since I used to work in a company that, come to find out, I was the ONLY straight guy there. It was cool, none of them ever hit on me, but sometimes if we were out someplace together others would assume.. The amusing part was watching one of them, who looks a LOT like Dennis Leary, tell them, "sweety, your Gaydar is SOOOO of today". None of it ever offended me. It's no different than a woman hitting on me that I am not interested in, and I certainly don't find it necessary to be unkind to anyone who's exposed enough of themselves to speak up about a possible attraction. I've found a simple " oh, thanks, but I'm not gay" with a smile, always does the trick with no harm, no foul.
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