I agree that she has serious issues if she's still hanging on to this.
You are in your full right to ask for an STD test before engaging in unprotected sex. It doesn't matter how few she has had sex with or how protected she was, it's you right to look after your health. If she can't understand that then I'd seriously think twice about your relationship.
If she wanted to have sex with you unprotected she should have volunteered taking the test, it's a simple matter of taking responsibility for your own actions and making sure they don't have any lifechangeing effects for the ones you love.
It is not just immature it's practily naive to react the way she did and still bitch about it four years later.
(sorry if I sound harsh but I have a friend who contracted hiv because she had unprotected sex with a guy even though he refused to test himself, he just keept claiming to be clean untill she caved in.)
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