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Originally Posted by abaya
Also, if you "love her so much and know this would ruin everything for her," then why the hell are you messing around without any precautions? Either abstain until you can deal with the risk, or she can get on birth control without her parents knowing, and you can use a condom if you're that freaked out about pre-cum. If you really care, take the steps to show it, rather than letting your own fear and paranoia rule.
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Because I never knew that fingering her had the smallest chance of getting her pregnant. I wish someone told me this and I would have never touched her or let her touch me. Thats what makes it worse. And after the first time we did it I told her we should use a condom even although I "knew" that nothing can happen from this. Well I knew wrong.
And yes even if she isnt, which I'm still sure she is, I am going to talk with her about this stuff.