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raeanna74 · 02-11-2005, 06:10 AM

I'm slow getting to this thread - Oh well, here's my 2c.

Hubby and I went for our first time with another swinger couple that we know. The club wasn't the most upscale but wasn't too bad. One of hubby's co-workers happened to show up and we got a little nervous. This is cause we were in a nearby town and hubby and I have family in my town that would be VERY upset about us doing anything like that. Hubby's co-worker though was just in the middle of an unpleasant divorce and didn't want the news getting out that he'd gone either. He said to hubby - "we didn't see each other here, right?" So I guess he was more concerned that we were. So anyway - beyond getting 'caught' being naughty - which btw made it more fun in my opinion - my evaluation of the experience - FUN - Not so much that it was worth the tips and drinks. We're kindof cheapskates and all. Some of the girls got exceptionally friendly with our girlfriend and me. The guys in the place were quite interested in that. It was fun for me as well as hubby. The girls in this particular place ran the whole gamut. One was a little chubbier even. Some weren't so skanky. Still we showered when we got home. Some of the girls were obviously friendly only until we gave them a tip and then they were off to bait some more people. We actually got to talk to one girl. It kindof made us sad. She was a 19 yr old single Mom and had a hard time finding other work. She was lovely but it seemed like she was sad that she was working there. It was interesting.

Hubby and I would go again perhaps. We go to swinger parties where we can see and even touch other naked people. It seems so much more real than the strip clubs and we don't have to tip people so it's more about the friendship than any amount of money. To go to a strip club seems so minor to going to the swinger clubs. If we weren't swingers though - you can bet we'd go to more strip clubs. The voyeuristic experience is a lot of fun for both of us and you can guarantee that some action will be had soon as we get home.

02-11-2005, 06:10 AM	#47 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	I'm slow getting to this thread - Oh well, here's my 2c. Hubby and I went for our first time with another swinger couple that we know. The club wasn't the most upscale but wasn't too bad. One of hubby's co-workers happened to show up and we got a little nervous. This is cause we were in a nearby town and hubby and I have family in my town that would be VERY upset about us doing anything like that. Hubby's co-worker though was just in the middle of an unpleasant divorce and didn't want the news getting out that he'd gone either. He said to hubby - "we didn't see each other here, right?" So I guess he was more concerned that we were. So anyway - beyond getting 'caught' being naughty - which btw made it more fun in my opinion - my evaluation of the experience - FUN - Not so much that it was worth the tips and drinks. We're kindof cheapskates and all. Some of the girls got exceptionally friendly with our girlfriend and me. The guys in the place were quite interested in that. It was fun for me as well as hubby. The girls in this particular place ran the whole gamut. One was a little chubbier even. Some weren't so skanky. Still we showered when we got home. Some of the girls were obviously friendly only until we gave them a tip and then they were off to bait some more people. We actually got to talk to one girl. It kindof made us sad. She was a 19 yr old single Mom and had a hard time finding other work. She was lovely but it seemed like she was sad that she was working there. It was interesting. Hubby and I would go again perhaps. We go to swinger parties where we can see and even touch other naked people. It seems so much more real than the strip clubs and we don't have to tip people so it's more about the friendship than any amount of money. To go to a strip club seems so minor to going to the swinger clubs. If we weren't swingers though - you can bet we'd go to more strip clubs. The voyeuristic experience is a lot of fun for both of us and you can guarantee that some action will be had soon as we get home. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.