If you can live with the truth, then I'd say that you deserve to know every detail. But if it's something that won't solve a purpose in your relationship, then you should just leave it alone. Having faith in someone you're with does a lot for the relationship. It depends really on the extent of that thing he/she did. If it's something terribly wrong, then I don't see why you should keep your feelings inside. But again, some things are better left untold, and if this is something you don't think you can handle, leave it alone. But on the other hand, it's good to have open communication lines, if it's something that is affecting you, then you should speak to him about it. Good luck!
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