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Originally Posted by Tack
My SO has told me that she doesn't want me to masturbate. She says that's her job and would be really hurt if she found out that I had. Since I respect her feelings, I abstain. I guess it's good that our sex life is extremely satisfying.
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Tack... My guess is that your relationship will be in trouble if there is a change in your SO's sex drive.....
My SO and I are very open about this issue and realize that it is much better option than ever being tempted to go outside our relationship for satisfaction.... While waiting for my SO's drive to return is always preferrable to me over masturbation, I know that changes to her drive have sometimes lasted for years before returning to normal. (Having our second child had a big impact on her.) Thankfully she made it easy for me to be her partner... she was just happy for me to be happy.... she even helped out a lot... he he
Trust me... after you have had kids... or other age related changes have occurred your individual sex drive may change.... many many do. What will you do then?
The problem is all in your partners head... why would your SO not want you to be happy?