It's usually impossible for me to deal with 'what if's since they're conjecture on something that hasn't ever happened.
That being said...we are dealing with the discovery of something that would have been better off not being known. While details are constantly being asked for, I feel it best to let things go and refuse to discuss the matter. It's not making things better, really, though. But I was always of the opinion that you shouldn't ask the question unless you are totally prepared for any answer-most times, unfortunately, the answer isn't what was expected or wanted, making the situation worse. It's a conundrum.....
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