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Originally Posted by ratbastid
What I find strange is that you're talking about this NOW. I can't imagine being in a committed relationship with someone--let alone MARRIED to them--without having aired all this dirty laundry already.
Whatever comes up, your only job is to roll with it. It's water under the bridge, she's yours now. Hear and don't judge.
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I totally agree, I've been married for 6 months, and we got all our dirty laundry out of the closet before we where married, infact our preacher suggested the same thing. IMHO this is very important to build trust when going into a relationship, as for what to do 2 years later, Talk to her about how you feel about how you feel and don't press the issue.