~springrain

THANKS everyone for you're input...

what i find so fascinating is how often VT can become miscombobulated in abyss that is my mind... *chuckle*

it's like... all i needed too see was the Title... "LADIES LOUNGE, No Men Allowed"... and i naively think, oh... only women are going to be in here...

of course, since their is no "bouncer" at the door checking gender... the fact is that men could very well be lurking... and perhaps even posting, under the guise of a female persona... didn't really occur to me until TODAY...

i've encountered this on many other different sites an it never really bothered me... i'm just mystified by my continued AIRHEADEDNESS in this regard... *laugh*

that said... i'll reiterate what i said before... i'm not upset that men lurk in here... but knowing that fact does somehow change how i originally perceived this space...

*shrug*... my mind is a complicated and sometimes scary place... *chuckle*...

thanks for all your comments!