I have the same problem. I've been denied by so many girls that I'm basically afraid to even show a sign of commitment. Plus, I'm a skateboarder, and a videogame-aholic. Nobody in my school shares the same interests. My advice to you is to just stick with it and take it slow. You don't have to rush your personality. If you do, you tend to not act like yourself and it drives people away. I know this makes me sound like a guidance counselor but this is one of those things in life where setting goals actually helps. At each get together, try something new or to talk a little more. If they start to avoid you, find someone else.
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