Originally Posted by Cimarron29414

The thing is, you started with one question "What turns you on?" and converted it to another question "What is your sexual history?" These are two VERY different questions. If you want to become tuned in to your wife's sexual desires, you only need the answer to question number one. If you want to have an indepth conversation that will potentially involve a tremendous amount of pain, guilt, discomfort, destructive dialog - then feel free to ask question number two.

Question 1 gets you good lovin'.
Question 2 gets you bad feelings.