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Yeah, don't push it - she loves you, you love her - enjoy one another from scratch, don't get into what happened in the past.
Whatever she says could have the potential for spoiling your relationship - I mean if she says too much, you might not like it, or if she doesn't say enough, you're going to think she's holding back.
I asked an ex this very same thing, and she told me about one time when she was with these two guys...Well, it kind of made me feel weird - here was the woman who might be the mother of my child, and she's been done by two guys at the same time.
Yeah, I know, I should have no hangups, or anything - but I think the worst thing was, that no matter what I ever did, I could never be two guys at the same time, it kind of made me feel a bit icky.
Today, I might have dealt with it slightly better, I'm more rounded, more experienced and I realise that I've changed myself a lot since I was 20 - I could probably accept that someone else could go through a whole host of experiences, and love them for who they are today - but it might still be a risk.
Anyway, I hope you get my point.
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