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Originally Posted by healer
The mistake made by most caucasian guys when dancing to Hip-Hop is that they tend to dance from their shoulders and end up looking all lanky with limbs flailing everywhere. Women ALWAYS look good when they're dancing - why? Because they dance from their hips and let their bodies follow.
My advice is to just go out on the floor with a woman and follow her movements. Respond to what's she's doing and you'll be bumpin and grindin in no time
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I think this is completely true. My boyfriend has the worse problem dancing, and it is because he "dances" with the upper part of his body while the bottom stands still. Guys really need to learn how to work your hips when you dance. Alot of bumping and grinding deals with sexual movements. Just think that you're in bed making love, and you pretty much have it. If this doesn't work, then always follow the girl. It is always more enjoyable for the girl if the guy matches her and isn't always bumping her.
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Originally Posted by amano
You know, I've tried doing this, actually subconsciously. After all, my eyes end up on girls whenever I go out to dance (mostly electronica related stuff like House, DnB, Breakbeats), and I try to do what I think looks good, and like you said, women always look good. Problem is (or maybe it isn't a problem based on what you said above) is that I think I end up looking too feminine while dancing. *shrugs*
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And if you feel more feminine, just remember, you are the one dancing not the guy standing on the sides critisizing.