Hey guys, if I'd have known this would be so much fun, I would have posted 6 weeks ago, before we figured out the problem...
BuDDaH, It's not me taking her that's the problem, it's me taking her the way SHE wants me to, so she can get into it. I'm not having any problems, I want to make HER experience the best it can be. And she wants me to order her around, tell her what to do.
Shani, I understand what you are saying. I am not going to break out the whips and chains, because that doesn't excite her. But if we are role-playing, and she wants to be submissive, then what happens if I order and she refuses? is what you are saying. There are some things she says she doesn't like to do, masturbation for one, that always manages to get her going. She says she doesn't like it, but those fingers get awfully wet. I think she likes the fact that I make her do it. So if I want something, and she refuses, that's one option. I like yours about not allowing her to get off. I've done that in the past, tease her up to the point of orgasm, then stop, let her relax a little and start again. When she does orgasm, wow. But to use it as a form of punishment, I like.
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