She just wants her man to be more dominant, so don't break out the S&M kit yet, Shani..
Byesman, just step up your game a bit, you two work so much that when you finally get home, you two are too tired to make a real concerted effort to have sex. You just have "releases".
Hmmm... Sounds like you are having #2 of what I call the "TW'S"
1) When you finally meet the person of your life, you have sex TRI-WEEKLY.
2) Not saying you are getting old and boring, but after a while, you settle in the runt of work, home, kids, bills, yadda,yadda.. so you TRY-WEEKLY to have sex..
3)Before you know it, you gotten too old to get it up, so you TRY-WEAKLY, to maintain some part of your former self and cave in to Viagra....
(Sounds farmiliar?)
In straight talk, while you want to make LOVE and she wants you to ride her like in a rodeo, fella.......
My suggestion: Break those thin lines on what we put to ourselves on : Making love, sex and fucking.
What she wants from you is to be a man; her MAN..
TRY TO BREAK IT OFF IN HER and OWN that PUSSY!!