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Jim Kata · 02-07-2005, 08:00 AM

Thanks for all the feedback.....

But I gotta say, she isn't half as bad as some of you are making her out to be.

I was in the right in asking her to get tested, but most likely, I probably didn't phrase my request right.

She did say that she felt like I thought she was a whore because of my request (whore may not have been the exact word). So yes, there may be some issues deep down inside there for her. But we'll work them out.

I really don't think that it has truly been bothering her for the past 4 years. When I asked her about my top nagging moments, it took her a while to even come up with one. Considering she had to go that far back to find one seems good to me.

Its kind of like me remembering this one time my dad wouldn't let me leave the table until I ate all of the cabbage rolls that were on my plate. I hated him at that moment for that (as stupid as it was, but hey...I was like 6 or 7). And it was the first time I remember ever being mad at my father. Do I hold that against him? No. Do I remember it? Yes...only because it was the first time I didn't think my Father was the coolest person in the world anymore. That would be on my top 3 list of times I hated my dad.

I think its kind of the same thing with her. She was mad about it at the time...but now 'it ain't no thang'.

02-07-2005, 08:00 AM	#33 (permalink)
Jim Kata Swollen Member Location: Northern VA	Thanks for all the feedback..... But I gotta say, she isn't half as bad as some of you are making her out to be. I was in the right in asking her to get tested, but most likely, I probably didn't phrase my request right. She did say that she felt like I thought she was a whore because of my request (whore may not have been the exact word). So yes, there may be some issues deep down inside there for her. But we'll work them out. I really don't think that it has truly been bothering her for the past 4 years. When I asked her about my top nagging moments, it took her a while to even come up with one. Considering she had to go that far back to find one seems good to me. Its kind of like me remembering this one time my dad wouldn't let me leave the table until I ate all of the cabbage rolls that were on my plate. I hated him at that moment for that (as stupid as it was, but hey...I was like 6 or 7). And it was the first time I remember ever being mad at my father. Do I hold that against him? No. Do I remember it? Yes...only because it was the first time I didn't think my Father was the coolest person in the world anymore. That would be on my top 3 list of times I hated my dad. I think its kind of the same thing with her. She was mad about it at the time...but now 'it ain't no thang'.