byesman....hope ya'll are feeling 100% soon!!
Im still curious though.....how are ya'll gonna go about handling the "what if she doesnt do what you order her to do". I realize that the "pain" aspect isnt what you're looking for, but like I said earlier...dominance without consequences of some sort isnt a good plan....if you tell her to do something and she decides to rebel.....what will be your plan of action?
When I rebel, which I do just because its my nature since Im a VERY dominant person, and Im what's classified as a "bratty submissive" Dave has different ways of "punishing" me and none of them involve restraining me or flogging me in any way (because I enjoy it to much
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