Under certain circumstances, of course I could sleep with more than one person. But a lot of ground has to be covered with those involved (when I say "those involved," YES, I do consider a significant other that isn't in the bedroom at the time to be part of that category). If I had a significant other, I probably wouldn't, but in the case that I did, my significant other would know about it, preferably before it took place. If I didn't have a significant other, whoever I would be sleeping with would have to know that:
a) yes, I do sleep with other people.
b) no, I am not in a serious relationship.
c) no, I do not expect that person not to see anyone else.
and d) no, I cannot go through with it if they are uncomfortable with it in any way.
It's all about trust, honesty, and being able to accept the fact that you might not get laid, even if you can, if the other person isn't cool with it.
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Originally Posted by Zeraph
...the best way to keep a big secret would be to make it public with disinformation...
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