| The wife and I are very open about it.  We have a little "do not disturb" sign that we hang on our bedroom doorknob to let the other one know when we're having a little "alone time".  We talk about it openly and we encourage each other to do it, as it is a healthy normal human activity.  She jokes about me "rubbing one out" and I joke about her "getting her best friend, the silver bullet".  It's self affirming, it relieves stress and I also heard recently that it's good for the prostate as well. 
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