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Originally Posted by Jim Kata
asked her to get tested to make sure everything was cool (not just her being tested, but got tested myself) before we started having sex without a condom.
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If you explained it to her that way, and she didnt see the importance of taking a test, I'd have serious doubts about her maturity.
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Originally Posted by Jim Kata
Anyways...she told me all of her friends thought I was being stupid,
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Lame lame lame lame lame...
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Originally Posted by Jim Kata
Anyways...she told me all of her friends thought I was being stupid, and I never got my friends opinion on the situation. But I was just curious on what you ladies thought about it if someone had asked you to do what I asked, and what you guys would think of a friend of yours asking a girl to do the same.
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I would never, ever, EVER have unprotected sex with someone without having them tested first. Even if the guy said that his test came back clean 3 months ago, I still wouldn't. There are some STDs that just don't go away, no way am I risking my health for a few moments of pleasure, and anyone who doesn't think about the consequences or thinks it can't happen to them, is delusional.
Don't feel like an asshole, you were looking out for your health. It was four years ago, early on in your relationship, she really needs to get over it.