I had a spet brother who didnt want to grow up and accept responsibility.
he's in his mid twenties and hasnt really accomplished anything..still kind of drifts around works a little bit, then drifts some more.
its hard to get anywhere without working hard, she'll likely never have a future in fashion. lets just face the facts...no matter what the hell she's doing, if she doesnt get serious about it, she wont be successful.
there were lots of attempts to get my multiple wayward step brothers to fly right.
one's been in jail for 6 years, the other is the drifter, and the other is apparently working and living by himself somewhere in georgia.
I hate to say it, but you just need to be an asshole, and so do your parents. tell her that once she's 18 if she hasnt straightened out, she'll be kicked out of the house...she'll sink or swim...its her problem
you'll only exhaust yourself trying to deal with unmotivated people. -let it be
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