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I agree with the last few posters... It doesnt mean that she's lazy, or that she's trying to not feel guilty about sex...
I am perfectly capable and willing to initiate sex, but sometimes I love to just be controlled, or have it be a little rough. People can have preferences that dont "mean" anything.
For advice, byesman, I have to echo ratbastid. Stop words are very important. Also, start with baby steps... I wouldn't try anything too harsh right out of the gate. Kind of work your way up to it...
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