Wow, I study for 22 hours and come back to all these posts, ain't the TFP beautiful?
I completely agree with some of you in that yes you can be pussy whipped if your only goal in a relationship is to get some ass at any opportunity, for any cost. But seeing as how my current relationship is moving into it's third year, being all about the sex is out of the question. I agree completely with Shani when she says it's a choice of wether or not you want to hang out or be with your significant other. If you can't do things on your own without the permission of your mate then you've passed the whipped mark and aren't even in a healthy relationship anymore.
The thing with most times I've heard guys being called whipped is just because they don't spend all damn day with them anymore. What do you call guys who ditch their girlfriends to hang out with their man-friends? It's definitely not looked at the same. Why can't you be friends with both yours guys and girl? I call my girlfriend "dude" sometimes just out of habit! If you have to act special around your girlfriend and not be true to yourself I also think that is a sign of an unhealthy relationship.
All I'm saying is that there is a huge double standard today with guys and their girlfriends.
Roomate update:
"Do you want to watch a movie tomorrow?"
"Nah man, I've got books coming out my asshole that I have to read...why?"
"Susie wants to hang out again, but I told her I couldn't and I need a reason."
"Why'd you tell her you couldn't?"
"I think I'm hanging out with her too much. I'm eating dinner tonight with guys though, so that works out."
Fuck, cancel my Man-Club membership if hanging out with your girlfriend makes you less macho.