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Shanifaye, BDSM also includes "sado-masochism" in there. Maybe she just likes being bossed around. Dominant does not ALWAYS mean the D/s sense. Dominant can also just means being in control (and you don't always have to punish to be in control).
Byesman, she basically just doesn't want to initiate- if this is okay with you, do it. Otherwise, compromise- tell her you'll be dominant in some situations, but would like her to initiate sex sometimes too.
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