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Go ahead and be controlling/dominating and see how it goes. It can range from you ordering her into different positions to a "rape" scenario. It all depends on what you agree on. However, I think you should agree to take turns. One night you take control but the next she has to control you. I can see her submissiveness becoming a regular thing and you will become frustrated with having to do all of the work. Unless you want to be in the control position all of the time, I think she needs to start branching out and help to keep things interesting.
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