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				Wife wants to be submissive
			 
 I did a search, and didn't see anything like this.  Anyway, after 14 years of marriage, and after about 5 years of a lousy sex life, my wife and I sat down and discussed the problem for about the 600th time.  She finally said she likes it when she has to do what I tell her.  That gets her excited.  (My wife is very conservative when it comes to sex, she was a virgin when we met, I have been her only lover, and I literally had to teach her how to masterbate, which she only does when I ask her to so I can watch.)  Anyway, She wants me to be dominant, not to the B&D or S&M type, but just telling her what to do and how to do it.  I have always been an guy who concentrates on her, and I'm not sure how to go about this.  Any suggestions?  I have the start of my evening planned for her, but after that, nada.  Thanks. 
				__________________If after I depart this vale you ever remember me and have thought to please my ghost,
 forgive some sinner, and wink your eye at some homely girl.
 
 H.L. Mencken
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