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Originally Posted by la petite moi
The idea of being pussy-whipped basically evolves from the fact that no one likes to be held down under the thumb of their significant other.
Both men and women are whipped- typically men whip their women in the literal sense of the word, which is illegal, and women use a more verbal or mental tactic (like no sex unless you buy her shit).
Whoever uses that word "pussy-whipped" or for women who call their friends "dick-whipped" (yes I've heard it)...you're damn immature. Let a person hae their fun, learn from their mistakes, and come back to be your friend.
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Call a spade a spade.
I have never used those exact terms but I have called friends on "whipped" behavior in the past and they were shocked but when I explained things to them they agreed.
A true friend is a person that will support you while you are off making your mistakes but they will also offer some advice and warning if they see you going down the wrong path. If I see a friend getting too heavy into alcohol I'm going to tell them they might want to cool it down a bit. I feel that's my duty as I just MIGHT be able to help them avoid a bad situation. Same thing here for somebody who is whipped. They really AREN'T having fun and many of them deep down are miserable yet they don't have the back bone to let their partner know how they feel thusly eliminating that vital universially agreed upon component....communication. Whipped people don't communicate. They lower their head say "Yes, dear." and scurry off.
EDIT:Oh and on the hang with your friends or have sex thing...
If you are doing everything under the sun for your SO JUST so you can have sex speaks of a dysfunctional relationship that just asking to fail. The guy that dumps his friends in an effort to constantly be with his girl JUST so he can have sex is beyond whipped. He's desperate. Now this is not to say wanting to be with your SO constantly is this as if you actually LIKE to do things with them...great. But if you are doing it just to get a little booty...whipped.