Man this thread is getting kinda harsh.....but then its a cruel world out there and its kinda of the truth also.
But, I think that it is all about how you carry yourself. Doesn't matter if your black, white, asian, short, tall, etc...
It depends on the person who has the the type of qualities such as Charisma, Personality, Charms, etc... to sweep any girl/guy away.
It's all a game out there and you just have to accept how things are. Everyone and everything just needs time to adapt to new changes.
EDIT : Having a average or big weiner will be a huge plus which will help the relationship.
Small hmmmm I'm sorry but she will be cheating behind your back for sure even if you have all the above.
