I'm going to agree with Charlatan. As you can see from our avatars, we often don't get along. But we did come together to save Christmas.
Aside from that, you have to look out for you first. Your sister won't accept your help until she's ready. It sucks to watch someone do this to themselves, but the more help you offer, the more she will resist. I agree that you should put some distance between yourself and them as soon as it's possible.
Let her make her mistakes but be there for her when she's ready to get it together.
In other words, my advice is to do pretty much what the majority of posters have advised: take care of yourself first. Good luck.
__________________
"I can normally tell how intelligent a man is by how stupid he thinks I am" - Cormac McCarthy, All The Pretty Horses
|