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Originally Posted by skier
Am I the only one that thinks Charlatan's position is crappy?
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It isn't a nice position but it is realistic.
LPM... As I suggested and dksuddeth suggests above... let her know that you will be there for her when she is ready.
From what you have written since your first post, it sounds like you have been trying your best to help her out. She is clearly not receptive to this. The best thing you can do now is continue to show her a better way by being a good example.
Just remember, she isn't you and she will do things differently. They may piss you off but it is her life and, again, it isn't your responsibility to raise her.
This doesn't mean you should stop caring, making suggestions about how she can make her life better, it just means you shouldn't spend your time and energy stressing about her. Your life is busy and full as it is...