You can't help someone that doesn't want help. It really sucks but it's true. It's not your job to raise your sister, it's your parents, if they don't want to do their job, then let them face the consequences of having an out of control daughter. Right now your getting your own life in order and setting things up for your own future and until you get that done you're not in a position to help your sister with her problems, especially if she doesn't want help. Don't try to keep your sister from falling down, just be there to help her get back up when she is ready for help and wants it, although if she hasn't changed and just wants an easy ride from you, like she's currently getting from your parents, then I'd say leave her ass out on the street, you have no obligation to help someone who can't appreciate what you're trying to do for them.
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Last edited by MageB420666; 02-03-2005 at 02:25 PM..
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